To all those Miss Independents..(or Misters too..i'm not being sexist here)..

Miss independent
Miss self sufficient
Miss keep your distance,
Miss unafraid
Miss out of my way
Miss dont let a man interfere,
Miss on her own
Miss almost grown
Miss never let a man help her off her throne
So, by keepin her heart protected,
She'd never ever feel rejected
Little miss apprehensive said ooo,
She fell in love.

What is this feelin' takin' over?
Thinkin' no one could open her door
Surprise, it's time
To feel what's real
What happened to Miss Independent?
No longer need to be defensive
Goodbye, old you
When love is true

Miss got it hard heart
Miss play it smart
Miss if you wanna use that line you better not start, noooo
But she miscalculated
She didn't wanna end up jaded
And this miss, decided not to miss out on true love, so
By changing a misconception
She went in a new direction
And found inside, she felt a connection
She fell in love.

When Miss Independent walked away
No time for love that came her way
She looked in the mirror and thought today
What happened to miss no longer afraid?
It took some time for her to see
How beautiful love could truly be
No more talk of "Why can't that be me?"
I'm so glad I finally see...


one of my favourite songs..by Kelly Clarkson..Miss Independent..
the song just rings soo true for so many girls out there..

so to all the miss independents out there..this goes out to you..

Let it all go..Set yourself free..
sometimes in life you just need to let go..stop being so guarded..its only when you take a leap of faith that you open yourself up to new things,experiences,people..remember that the little bird learns how to fly only when it is pushed off the branch out into thin air..who knows where it will lead you..you might just discover a whole new part of YOU!!..and there is nothin is this world that can beat that..
just imagine..theres a whole world in there just waiting to be discovered..places in your soul that have been locked up for ages..guarded by those inhinitions and fears..letting them go may just be the key that opens those new dimensions up to you..and for the people you are gonna meet in the world..
the feeling that you get when such a thing happens..is just so..WOW!!..liberating..wonderful..beautiful..something that noone should ever miss out on..trust me on this one..i know just how it feels..

the experience may be good or not-so-good..(though it may seem like a disaster when it happens..it wil never be entirely bad)..in time you will find that it adds to who you are as a person..gives you insights on things..much needed insight..of who you are..the things that are truly important to you..the people that matter..your beliefs,values..gosh!!!..theres just so much to be gained from all of it..
and each experience will just make you stronger..you always end up comin out of it a "new and improved" person..just remember that "that which doesnt break me only makes me stronger"..*smiles knowingly*
so go ahead..Let go..and let it all in..the world..love..friendship..write your own lil fairytale..